Who I am

My name is Milan. I work as a Dutch gigolo — an independent male escort — for women and couples in the Netherlands. I have done this since 2023. I speak Dutch and English, so you do not have to find the right words in a language that is not yours.

If you are wondering what a gigolo actually is, what a professional male companion does and how this type of appointment differs from an ordinary date, you can read my guide: What is a gigolo?

Most women who write to me have already thought about this for a while. Not because they cannot meet anyone, but because an ordinary date asks for a lot of patience: will he arrive, will he listen, will he disappear afterwards? Booking time with me takes that uncertainty out of the evening. You know who is coming. You know what it costs. You keep the pace.

I live in the triangle of Utrecht, ’s-Hertogenbosch and the Betuwe. I travel to you. You can also visit me for an afternoon or an evening. I do not host overnights at my home. If you want to stay until morning, we take a hotel.

What a date with me can be

You reserve hours. What we do with them is yours. Some evenings stay slow and dressed. Some do not. If you already know you want something specific — tenderness, heat, a kink you have not said out loud before — tell me in advance. Then I can meet you there, instead of guessing at the door.

A boyfriend experience

This is what many women ask for when they are tired of a date that only exists to get to bed. Dinner if you want it. Conversation that is actually a conversation. Lying close with clothes still on, if that is the whole point of the evening. Intimacy is part of it only if you want it. The hours are not a checklist.

If you want something kinky

Curiosity is allowed here. So is saying no after we have started. If you want a BDSM dynamic or a fetish you do not want to explain to someone you might see again at a dinner party, we agree the limits first. I do not invent a scene you did not ask for, and I do not treat nerves as part of the game.

If you come as a couple

Couples usually write because there is a wish that is easier to name with a third person who is not from your circle. Watching, joining in, or a first evening that stays careful — that is for both of you to say, not one of you on behalf of the other. Cuckolding is possible if that is what you both want. I am not here to repair a relationship. The rate is the same as a booking with one woman.

Where I travel

I travel throughout the Netherlands. There is no standard travel fee. You do not have to come to Amsterdam for this to make sense. If you are in Rotterdam, The Hague, Utrecht, Eindhoven, Breda, Maastricht, Groningen, Nijmegen or somewhere quieter in between, I come to you — a hotel in your city, or your home if that feels peaceful.

How the hours usually feel

A first name and a day is enough to start. We decide together whether a hotel is easier, whether your own place is quiet enough, or whether you would rather visit me for a few hours. You send a room number only once you are inside. At a hotel desk I am simply someone you are expecting.

The first minutes are rarely a performance. We sit. We have a drink. I pay attention to how you arrive in the room, not only to what you typed on WhatsApp. If you want to talk, we talk. If you want me closer, I come closer. Slowing down or stopping is always allowed, including after we have already begun. Inside the time we booked there is no stopwatch hanging over the bed.

If you want the morning as well, we take a hotel. You wake up without having to explain anything at my door. After we part I do not write unless you do.

Hotel overnight

If you want to stay until morning, an overnight booking is always in a hotel. I do not host overnight stays at my home. The hotel room is separate from my escort rate.

You can choose the hotel yourself, or we can discuss a suitable hotel in the city where we meet.

What discretion looks like in practice

Discretion is not a word on a banner. It is how the appointment is built. Cash if you do not want a line on a statement. A hotel room in my name if you do not want it in yours. No message at an hour you have said is inconvenient. After the date I leave the conversation where it is, unless you open it again.

What it costs

Agencies in the Netherlands often ask €200 to €400 for the first hour, plus travel and extras. I charge €120 for one hour and €200 for two because there is no office between us. What you read here is what you pay for my time. The hotel room is separate — you choose it, or I find one that is calm.

All-inclusive for my time in the Netherlands. Couples pay the same as a woman booking on her own.

An agency or me

An agency offers a list of men and a person at a desk who passes your wishes along. That desk has a price. With me the first message and the man at the door are the same person. You have less choice. You also have fewer people who have read what you wanted.

What women wrote afterwards

I cannot tidy reviews. On Kinky.nl there are seven public ones, averaging 4.8. The photos are marked as matching. I do not write them, and a lower score stays where it is.

If you would rather hear my voice first

Photographs and a price table do not tell you how someone talks. I spoke on the Telegraaf podcast High Class Escort Secrets, including why I do not do this for the money. There is a guest piece on Girls-Things. If the photos are still not enough, a short video call is possible — not a second interview, just a chance to hear whether the voice fits.

Questions women ask before they write