Erotic massage · Netherlands · English welcome · 21+
An erotic massage, if being touched is the part you have missed
You do not have to arrive already sure of sex. An erotic massage with me can stay a massage: warm oil, a slower breath, a body against yours only as far as you want. Clothed or nude is your choice. I come to you, or, once the trust is there, you come to me.
I am Milan. I work for myself, for women and couples aged 21 and over, across the Netherlands. English is welcome from the first message. A question is not a booking.
You pay for reserved time. A massage can be the whole meeting. If you want more, we say so before anything changes.
What is an erotic massage with a gigolo?
It is not a spa menu, and it is not a code for sex you are not allowed to refuse. With me it is hands on your back, your shoulders, your legs, oil if you want it, and the weight of a man close to you. Body-to-body means my chest or hips can rest against you. Nude or with a shirt still on. The light can stay off, or one small lamp, if being seen still feels like too much.
Agencies often list an erotic massage as an extra you tick while booking, sometimes with a surcharge. I do not do that. The rate is the same as any other hour with me. High-class is how the evening is held, not a higher bill. If you want the wider picture of who I am, it sits on male escort Netherlands.
A blindfold is possible if you ask for it, and if it still feels safe once I am there. That can be a quieter, sharper kind of massage: you feel the hands and not the look. A safeword is agreed first. Nothing sharp, nothing that leaves a mark, unless we have talked about that on its own page of the Dutch site and you have asked for it in English before I arrive.
How does the hour begin?
You can start on your stomach, face turned away, so you are not looked at straight away. Your shirt can stay on until you notice you want it off. Many women use the first twenty minutes only to land. I do not rush that, and I do not treat silence as a problem.
At your place
A hotel is not required. I come to your home or to the hotel you already have. We agree when I ring, so neighbours do not get a story. I usually arrive in a black Tesla Model S, so you know it is me.
At my place
If the trust is there, you are welcome at mine. We agree that before the day, never as a surprise at the door. You can leave whenever you want.
Clothed or nude
Both are a real massage. Underwear can stay. A towel can stay. Body-to-body only starts if you want the weight of me, not because the oil is already warm.
You can stop
One word is enough. I stop without asking you to explain. Crying is allowed. It happens. I will hold you, and I will not turn the tears into a performance.
If this would be your first message to anyone, stay with first time hiring a male escort for as long as you need. The word itself, without a decision, is on what is a gigolo.
Is sex required after the massage?
No. Not unless you want it, and the setting has given you enough trust to say so. A massage that stays a massage is not a failed booking. I would rather end with you calm than push a line you did not ask to cross.
If intimacy does follow, condoms are always used, unless we have talked about that beforehand and both of us share recent test results. There is no debate about that in the room.
Couples can book this too. Say so in the first message, so we know who is in the room and what each of you wants touched. More on a shared evening sits on threesome male escort. A softer, date-like evening, if massage is only the start, is on boyfriend experience.
What does it cost?
The same as every other meeting. No massage surcharge, no travel fee inside the Netherlands, no deposit.
| Time | Rate | What it often is |
|---|---|---|
| 1 hour | €120 | A first meeting, or a massage that stays a massage |
| 2 hours | €200 | What most women choose, time to arrive in your body |
| 3–4 hours | €300–€400 | Dinner, then oil, then no clock |
| Overnight | €600 | Only if we agree it before I come |
The full list is on male escort rates in the Netherlands.
How do you know it is me?
I have worked independently since 2023. No desk, no other man sent in my place. You can read the public reviews on Kinky.nl, average 4.8 out of 5 from 7 reviews, and listen to the De Telegraaf podcast before you write. A short video call is fine if you want a face before a door.
I am not a therapist. If what you need is treatment, a doctor or a counsellor is the better first step. I can still be the hands, later, if you want that.
Questions women ask before a massage
Do I have to have sex after the massage?
No. The massage can be the whole meeting. More only happens if you want it, and if you feel safe enough to say so.
Can I keep my clothes on?
Yes. A shirt, underwear or a towel can stay. Nude is also fine. You choose, and you can change your mind.
Do I need a hotel?
No. I can come to your home. If you already have a hotel, I can come there. If the trust is there, you can also come to mine. We agree that in advance.
Is there an extra fee for an erotic massage?
No. It is the same rate: €120 for one hour, €200 for two. No travel fee in the Netherlands. No deposit.
Do you use condoms?
Always, if sex is part of the meeting, unless we discussed otherwise beforehand and both share recent tests.
Can I write in English?
Yes. WhatsApp, Telegram, Snapchat and email are all fine. A first name and a city are enough.
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Milan · erotic massage · 21+
You do not have to decide anything yet
Write as if you were sitting next to me. “Hi, I read the massage page and I have a question” is already a full message. I answer myself. A message is not a booking.
Warmly, Milan