About · Independent since 2023 · 21+
Who is Milan? Independent male escort and gigolo in the Netherlands
The man behind this site: a discreet male companion for women and couples, working for himself since 2023, between Brabant and Utrecht.
Short answer: I’m Milan, an independent male escort and gigolo in the Netherlands, working for myself since 2023, alongside other work. I see women and couples aged 21 and over, across the Netherlands and Belgium, in English or Dutch. I’m based between Brabant and Utrecht, I was a guest on a De Telegraaf podcast, and I have 8 public reviews on Kinky.nl, averaging 4.7 out of 5. Discretion comes first: a first name is enough. Dates start from €120, cash is fine, and we meet at your home, your hotel, my place or a quiet neutral spot.
Who I am, in plain words
You’re probably reading this because you’re thinking about booking a male companion and you want to know who would actually walk through the door. That’s a fair question, and it deserves a straight answer rather than a sales pitch. So here it is.
I’m Milan. I’m in my thirties, about 1.75 metres tall, with an athletic build. I’ve lived in the Netherlands for around thirty years, and I carry a cultural background of my own alongside the Dutch one. I won’t go into detail about it here, partly because it’s personal and partly because it doesn’t need to define me. What it does give me is a feel for what it’s like to move between two worlds. Expats, visitors and women with a mixed background sometimes recognise that in me straight away.
I’m an entrepreneur, and since 2023 I’ve also worked as an independent male escort, a gigolo if you prefer that word. I do this part-time, alongside my other work. I chose that on purpose: it means I only take dates I actually want to be at, and I never need to rush you or squeeze you in between other appointments.
There’s no agency behind me and no booker reading your messages. When you send a WhatsApp, I’m the one who reads it and I’m the one who answers.
Milan at a glance
| Details | |
|---|---|
| Work | Independent male escort and gigolo, since 2023, alongside other work |
| For | Women and couples aged 21 and over |
| Based | Between Brabant and Utrecht (Utrecht · Den Bosch · Betuwe) |
| Area | The whole of the Netherlands, and Belgium |
| Languages | English and Dutch, plus a few basic words of German |
| Rates | From €120 for one hour; €200 for 2 hours, €300–400 for 3–4 hours, €600 overnight |
| Where we meet | Your home, your hotel room, my place or a quiet neutral location |
| Payment | Cash is fine; a Tikkie is also possible |
| Health | STI-tested; safe sex is standard |
| Known from | A De Telegraaf podcast; 8 public reviews on Kinky.nl, averaging 4.7/5 |
Discretion: how I protect your privacy
Discretion isn’t a word I put on a website and forget about. It’s the way I work, from the first message to long after we’ve said goodbye.
- A first name is enough. I don’t need your surname, your employer or your home address unless I’m coming to your home.
- No traces. I don’t keep records, I don’t take photos and I never talk about who I see.
- I never message first after a date. If you want to see me again, you get in touch. If you don’t, you will never hear from me.
- In public, I don’t know you. If we happen to run into each other in the street, in a restaurant or at an event, I won’t greet you or look your way, unless you greet me first.
- No deception. I won’t help anyone lie to or deceive a partner. Couples who book me together, with clear agreements, are a different story, and very welcome.
I take this seriously because I know what’s at stake. For some women it’s their reputation at work, for others it’s family, a small town or simply the right to keep part of their life private. You don’t owe anyone an explanation, and you certainly don’t owe me one.
How a date with me works
Every date starts with a conversation on WhatsApp. You tell me what you have in mind: a dinner, a long evening, a night in a hotel, or simply time together without pressure. You also tell me what you don’t want. Then we agree on a time, a place and a duration.
When I arrive, the first part is just meeting each other. A drink, a chat, getting comfortable. Nothing happens just because the clock is running, and you can stop at any moment. Some women want closeness and conversation more than anything else. Others want passion. Both are fine, and you don’t need to know exactly what you want before we meet.
I’m not a therapist and I don’t pretend to be one. I’m a good listener and I’m not easily shocked, but if something belongs with a professional, I’ll say so honestly. I also don’t promise a relationship. What I offer is real attention, for the time we agree.
If you’ve never done this before, read first time hiring a male escort. It walks through the whole process, from the first message to the moment I leave.
Who I see: women and couples
I see women of every age from 21 upwards, and couples. Some are single, some are divorced or widowed, some are visiting the Netherlands for work or a holiday. Some have been out of practice for years and want to start again gently; others know exactly what they like.
Couples pay the same rate as a woman on her own. I have experience with couples who want to explore a threesome, and with cuckold and hotwife dynamics. With couples, everything is agreed with both partners in advance, and both of you can pause or stop at any time. If that’s what brought you here, read threesome with a male escort.
For travellers, there are practical guides on this site: the tourist guide to hiring a male escort in the Netherlands, male escort in Amsterdam, male escort in Amsterdam’s 5-star hotels and women over 50 travelling to the Netherlands.
Where I work
I live between Brabant and Utrecht, roughly in the triangle of Utrecht, Den Bosch and the Betuwe. From there I drive across the whole country and into Belgium. Within the Netherlands there are no travel costs, except for Zeeland, Friesland, Groningen and Drenthe. If you’d like to know what applies to your town, just ask.
For some cities further away there is a minimum booking, simply because of the drive: one hour in Arnhem, two hours in Nijmegen, three hours in The Hague, Antwerp, Maastricht and Heerlen or Sittard, and four hours in Brussels, Ghent and Groningen. City pages in English include Amsterdam, Rotterdam, The Hague, Utrecht, Eindhoven, Brussels and Antwerp.
We can meet at your home, in a hotel room you have booked, at my place, or somewhere neutral and quiet. For hotel visits, the room is booked in your name and the hotel costs are separate from my rate. More on that in hotel visit with a male escort.
Rates and payment
| Duration | Rate |
|---|---|
| 1 hour | €120 |
| 2 hours | €200 |
| 3–4 hours | €300–400 |
| Overnight | €600 |
- Couples pay the same rate.
- Cash is fine, in euros. A Tikkie is also possible if your bank supports it.
- Hotel separate. My rate is for my time; the room is yours.
- Cancel at least 6 hours in advance, via WhatsApp.
A full explanation, including what’s included and what isn’t, is on male escort rates in the Netherlands.
A little more about me
Outside this work I’m a fairly ordinary man with a few soft spots. I love cars. I drive a black Tesla Model S, which friends call the Batmobile, and if I come to your home it’s an easy way to recognise me when I arrive. I’m a big fan of Netflix and the cinema, I could eat sushi several times a week, and I’ve been loyal to Armani perfume for years.
I mention these things because a date is about two people, not a service menu. You’ll find I’m easy to talk to, curious about your life and in no hurry.
In the press, and what others say
You don’t have to take my word for any of this. In 2026 I spoke openly about this work in a podcast by De Telegraaf, under the title “Ik doe het niet voor het geld”, which translates as “I don’t do it for the money”. The episode was published on 2 April 2026 and is also on Spotify.
A woman wrote about her own experience in a guest article on Merle Hebing, and I wrote a guest piece for Girls Things. On Kinky.nl there are 8 public reviews of me, averaging 4.7 out of 5. I don’t publish reviews or client stories on my own sites. I prefer that what others say about me stays where they chose to say it.
On Instagram I write about intimacy, closeness and touch. My face isn’t shown there, but the tone is the same as here.
What I don’t do
- I don’t see anyone under 21.
- I don’t work through an agency, and no one else takes a cut.
- I don’t promise a relationship, and I don’t pretend a date is something it isn’t.
- I don’t help anyone deceive a partner.
- I don’t do anything without clear consent, and you can stop at any moment.
Sources and further reading
These are the sources I used, or that I think are worth your time.
Frequently asked questions
Who is Milan?
Milan is an independent male escort and gigolo in the Netherlands. He has worked for himself since 2023, alongside other work, and sees women and couples aged 21 and over across the Netherlands and Belgium.
Is Milan part of an agency?
No. Milan works independently. You message him directly on WhatsApp and he answers himself. No one else takes a cut or reads your messages.
Where is Milan based?
Between Brabant and Utrecht, roughly between Utrecht, Den Bosch and the Betuwe. He travels across the Netherlands and into Belgium.
Which languages does Milan speak?
English and Dutch, plus a few basic words of German.
What does a date with Milan cost?
From €120 for one hour. Two hours are €200, 3–4 hours €300–400 and an overnight stay €600. Couples pay the same rate. The hotel room is separate.
Can I pay in cash?
Yes. Cash in euros is fine. A Tikkie is also possible if your bank supports it.
Where can we meet?
At your home, in a hotel room you have booked, at Milan’s place or at a quiet neutral location.
How discreet is Milan?
A first name is enough. He keeps no records, takes no photos, never messages first after a date and won’t greet you if you happen to meet in public, unless you greet him first.
Has Milan been in the media?
Yes. He was a guest on a De Telegraaf podcast, published on 2 April 2026, titled “Ik doe het niet voor het geld” (“I don’t do it for the money”). On Kinky.nl he has 8 public reviews, averaging 4.7 out of 5.
Does Milan see couples?
Yes, at the same rate as a woman on her own. Everything is agreed with both partners in advance, and both can pause or stop at any time.
Milan · 21+
Want to get to know me first?
Send me a message with a question, or just to say hello. A first name is enough.
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